Shall We Live On Mars?

Hello all,                                                         I Avinash Meshram, welcome you to my blog, Shades of Life. I hope you like to read my blog. Smiley... My friend has been approached for marriage a few days ago (arranged marriage). She is not interested in getting married right now. And she didn't like the profile of the guy either.  For now there seems no problem in the guy. He is good looking, belongs to a settled family, has a settled business and has a luxurious lifestyle. Now, after reading about the guy, normally one should think, "Why should she reject the guy? There is no reason to reject him." Her family thinks the same way. And that's why they were trying to convince her till today. She tried a lot to make them understand that she is not ready, but nobody listened to her. And finally.... She agreed today! She is not happy. But she agreed! After listening to her, a few questions raised in my mind... 1. Why should she reject the guy? 2. If she

Hello all,                                                    I Avinash Meshram, welcome you to my blog, Shades of Life. I hope you like to read my blog. Smiley... I am working in education field since 13 years now. I started as a home tutor in 2006. Found my way up from teaching 6th standard to teaching 12th standard till 2012. And also found my way from being a home tutor to being a faculty in Coaching Institutes as a JEE Faculty Mathematics. I worked really hard and kept on updating my knowledge by studying regularly. My students were happy with my teaching and I have also given some very good results on the way. Three years ago, I decided to open my own Institute and impart quality education to students. The goal was high, dream was seen with the open eyes and there was a hell lot of competition! I stopped working and invested all my time and money into my institute, BrainStorm - The Institute For Excellence , with the hope of making it one of the best institutes in the country, o

Hello all,                                                        I Avinash Meshram, welcome you to my blog, Shades of Life. I hope you like reading my blog. Smiley. My friend asked me this question, when his girlfriend broke up with him. I would continue that conversation as a first person now. It sounds crazy but we connected on our First Date, like we had known each other since ages! It was so good that we ended up kissing each other on the First Date! And we started missing each other as soon as the date ended. We spent next few nights talking. Entire Nights! It was all really good! We connected very well and the grass was greener everywhere!  I started smiling my heart out. And I started smiling for no reason! She was amazing. (She still is amazing!) We were going fast, but it still felt right. Like it was all written! I wanted to give our relationship a name and I wanted to tell her that I love her. But before that, I wanted to tell her one incidence of my life. I told her that.

Hello,                                                                             I Avinash Meshram, welcome you to my blog, Shades of Life. I hope you like my articles.  I have three questions today. Three of my friends... Friend 1.  He got into a new relationship. He asked his girlfriend for sex. She said no. He waited for a few days and then one day, they met and he tried to get close to her. She stopped him and asked, "Is sex necessary? can't we have a relationship without sex?" Friend 2. He tried to have sex with his girlfriend four times, in a month. But because of one or the other reason, they had to stop in between. At the end of the month, he asked again. His girlfriend said, "Why do you always talk about Sex only?" Friend 3. He got into a relationship recently. He tried to get close to his girlfriend. It was the first time for the girl. So she was skeptical. Still she did it. But when it was done, she felt guilty and asked, "Why couldn't I st

Hello friends, I Avinash Meshram, welcome you to my blog, Shades of Life. Did you feel that yesterday's blog was full of negative vibes? (You can comment and tell me) So, yesterday, I was talking about would that work? Strange question! We all know we can't go to Mars.... smiley. But just think for a minute... If it was possible for you to go to mars to leave your life on earth behind, and start fresh on Mars. Would you really have chosen to go there? Life might be fucked up on earth. But is it so fucked up that you would chose to leave everything behind and go to a new planet altogether to live alone? (Assuming no one else have chosen to go). Or can you be sure that the life on Mars would definitely be good? I guess the answer for all of us is NO! And the "NO" would be for three main reasons, 1. Doesn't matter how difficult the life is, we all have something good as well to hold onto. Which would always make us stay! 2. Being realistic, we know that going to Mars

hello, My name is Avinash Meshram. Today is my first day and it't my first blog! Well, there are a few things I have in my mind, like, why doesn't this site change a normal letter to a capital letter after the full-stop? or why do i have to delete i and change it to I, after finding out that even i is not changed to I automatically here! Being habitual to typing in word has made me lazy, I guess. smiley. At least, it has one good feature of word, that it tells you if you make a spelling mistake. smiley. I am not that bad at spellings, but it still is assuring to the feature of correcting the spellings mistakes. You too would agree to me on this. Two smileys. Let us talk about me now.  What to say? I am a very private person. I don't usually share my life with anyone. So definitely, I am not going to share everything here either. It is better that way. It sucks to have people judge you. And worst than that, you know that people would judge you after knowing those things, and